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I’m feeling loveless and emotionally blank from my wife. She even don’t say a single word for me forget about?
December 27, 2010
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You best have a conversation with her. there is some obvious resentment there on both parts.
NOT A GOOD WAY TO START A MARRIAGE
Marriage has 3 major components:
i. Living together
ii. Love
iii. Sex
In your case, the first component is OK. And your wife must be assuming in her heart that you are getting her love; she is getting your love. It is natural assumption in arranged marriages, though it may not happen. And as love is an abstract thing, you cant afford to be in argument with your wife even if it is missing.
In marriages, giving and receiving sexual pleasures from spouse is also a natural assumption. A husband has a right to seek sex from his wife. The refusal on the part of wife can lead to seeking sex elsewhere, or seeking it through arbitration by court or by yours as well as her parents. But then she may give you sex, but it may just be mechanical. Satisfaction part maybe missing, leaving you as thirsty as ever. This is the reason now many people seek love and sex outside (EMS: Extra-marital Sex).
Now in you case, since 2 vital components of marriage are missing, it will be the best to part ways at this stage rather than lingering the relationship in the hope of improvement.
She hardly knows you then! Can you explain "mutual family understandings" more?
Tough to tell you what to do, If I loved her I would try to get the fire started again…….wine and dine her……..do something together you both like, start it slow, and see if you can make it go , and glow. Sorry, all the best to you……it’s sure not the way one wants to spend his life…………she’s your best friend here on earth……..if not, forget it.
You do not say what country you are in, but you are married thru prearranged family agreements? Is that correct?
You will need to let her fall in love with you. You must do everything to be a good husband to earn her respect, and do things to make her feel lovely and let her know you are happy she is your wife.
I have no idea what you can do about an annulment if it does not work out. Hope this helps a little.
Please go to counseling. Communication is needed for a marriage to work! If you and your wife want the marriage to work this may help and try to get to the source of the problem. If she is unwilling then it may be best to part ways because if one is willing but the other is not then it just won’t work.
was this an arranged marriage
Welcome to marriage. That’s what happens once the girl traps you.
You didn’t marry for love or sex. You married for mutual family understandings.
so how’s it going in the "mutual family understandings" department? All’s well there I hope.
You have a girlfriend, not a wife. She isn’t feeling sexual desire for you. Why? This is going to be a difficult battle for you. Depending on her sexual background and your sexual experience so far, it could take years. You might have to take a concubine.
You really porked it when you agreed to an arranged marriage my friend. I guess you could threaten to have her set on fire if she doesn’t have sex with you.
Ficking barbarians…